Manipulation Patterns

Manipulation patterns

So I’m not sure how many of you might have read a wonderful book that I got a chance to listen to a while ago called the Celestine Prophecy? It’s a great book. It goes into explaining how we’re all energy, and it also talks about these wonderful control dramas that we all tend to operate in in one way or another. There are also these insights that it refers to, while it uses a storyline to explain the insights as it goes along. Also depicting how the exchanges in our life unfold at each step as we go.

The book goes into explaining how these control dramas are a form of energy manipulation, and how the purpose of this life is to learn how to manipulate energy, or rather, use it. I would like to add that we’re here to learn to use it in a cohesive way, but I understand that you can’t have one without the other, and that it is the contrast and fractal implosion that creates the immanence of awareness that truly allows us to know what that means.

Would you know what tall was if you didn’t know short? Would you know what big was if you didn’t know little? If you didn’t know what light was, would you know dark, and if you didn’t know your shadow, would you know your enlightenment? I mean, why would they even call it that? It indicates turning on a light, doesn’t it? Implying you would need to start in the dark and enlighten…? I love those common-sense epiphanies, don’t you?

Homage should be given to those who were willing to stay asleep in order to wake us up, because it really wouldn’t have happened any other way.

When we observe the world that goes on around us, it becomes pretty easy over time to be able to identify the manipulation pattern and or control drama that is being played out in whatever scenario we are observing.

Again, I’ll mention that if we are bothered in any way emotionally or physically by the pattern that we are observing, then it is because there is something that it is asking us to see within ourselves. It is not always the same thing that’s being depicted, and at times it could be the complete opposite.

For instance, if you see a depiction of someone playing the role of the victim, at times, it won’t just be telling you that you’re playing the role of the victim, and sometimes it will depict an unwillingness to surrender or that maybe you are victimizing others to some degree, whether you are aware of it or not.

This can also be said about the more dominating energies. It doesn’t mean that you have an issue with domination or control during all experiences. At times, maybe it’s there to help you gain strength because you spent too much time in the victim control drama, and they are there to show you strength.

Then there’s the control drama that displays an energy of aloofness that is kind of designed to redirect all questioning back onto someone else. This energy could leave you questioning yourself, and the things you know, creating an energy of reaching out and or a chasing dynamic, as if the person that’s pulling away may know more than you do, and in turn receives your energy and your focus But what if, instead of this showing you that you are acting in aloof ways, which it could be, but instead it is teaching you to know yourself in such a way that nothing could make you question what it is that you know to be true in your heart. Also teaching you how to be present for yourself and those around you, knowing exactly how it feels to be on the other side of another’s resistance.

Of course, there is always an exchange of these energies. And even though they all serve as perfect mirror reflections, there are times they are showing you your resistance to whatever it is that you’re seeing, and the fact that you do not have unconditional love and acceptance for whatever it is or whoever it might be.

These controlled dramas exist for a reason. And knowing what I know, I do understand that we are all here to activate one another, and we do so by using these control dramas until we learn to act in a more consciously aware fashion. And even then, at times two.

the dominating role is only dominating if there is someone who is willing to play the victim role, and vice versa. The person who might be playing the role of being detached and or aloof actually couldn’t exist unless there was somebody who suffered from severe attachment patterns. Each of these experiences is meant to enhance the others and is ever-fluctuating.

I can see from my own experiences that you can go from victim to dominating if you’re not careful, and I guess it’s probably kind of the way it needs to be until you learn to swing with the pendulum and find a balanced point in the middle somewhere, like maybe the zero point

I guess my point in creating this writing is not just a point out that manipulation patterns are going on, but that we are responsible for everything that we see and so if we are observing manipulation patterns, we need to take accountability and bring whatever clarity we have to the table to serve one another in a more cohesive, fashion or at least be able to identify that’s what’s happening.

Honestly, that’s enough for me. Conscious, accountable, openhearted, and receptive, exchanges of energy, that’s my intention.